“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl invited herself to my place, what should I do?

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Basically I ran into this girl that's been eyeing me a lot lately, she walked up, called me by name, and asked me about her iPod:

"blah blah blah" *small talk ensues* She gave me her name, long story short she asked if she could come by my place this weekend and use my computer for her iTunes. I'm not sure what to make of this, I'm thinking one of two explanations:

A - She likes me and is using iPod as an excuse to hang out w/ me

OR

B - She is just using me for my computer and iTunes

Keep in mind I have had no previous interactions w/ this girl.

Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so you think she either has been "spying" to finally arrive at the opportunity to move forward with her devious plan to utilize you for your computer so she can upload a few new songs to her ipod, even though everyone on earth - including her friends probably - have computers that she can use. Playboy, I think she likes you. You lucky dog, you:)
 
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sosocool is right; she has to know plenty of people with computer access. It sounds like you might even be able to beat it up the first time she comes over. Start off with the kino as soon as she arrives at your place. Try to get her on the couch eventually to watch a movie or something...make sure to sit right next to her. Be playful with her...try to kiss her...escalate...


But sh1t, maybe she is using you for your computer...still worth a shot!
 
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Did she tell you, "erivera571, I heard you've got the biggest and greatest hard drive 'puter in town. I want to test it"?

How old are you/she? Are you attracted to her? Did she give you her phone number?

Anyway, I would tell her to come over late at night, as you're busy all day during weekend. If she shows, you know she wants your hard drive, and if she doesn't, you would have been home already, gettting ready to go to sleep.
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Did she tell you, "erivera571, I heard you've got the biggest and greatest hard drive 'puter in town. I want to test it"?

How old are you/she? Are you attracted to her? Did she give you her phone number?

Anyway, I would tell her to come over late at night, as you're busy all day during weekend. If she shows, you know she wants your hard drive, and if she doesn't, you would have been home already, gettting ready to go to sleep.
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Not really, she didn't mention anything in terms of computer skills during the convo, just mainly talking about her iPod.

As far as age, I'm 21 and she's 19. And yea, she's pretty hot imo. No, she didn't give her number, but I'm pretty sure I would've gotten it anyways if I had asked.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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erivera571 said:
Not really, she didn't mention anything in terms of computer skills during the convo, just mainly talking about her iPod.

As far as age, I'm 21 and she's 19. And yea, she's pretty hot imo. No, she didn't give her number, but I'm pretty sure I would've gotten it anyways if I had asked.
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LoL, young man, I was playing when I said "hard drive", etc.

Anyway, why didn't you get her digits?

Next time she sees you, tell her, "Ok, If I let you use it, what will you do for me?" make her get creative, until she says "whatever you want", then tell her to cook for you, or bring you some take out. Off course, the frame here is that her looks alone will not be enough for you. She gets a lot of stuff for free, and favors just because of her looks, but with you, it will be different. Do it in a playful way that communicates you are onto what hot chicks do to guys. :D
 
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Doesn't matter. Rule #1: ALWAYS assume she likes you :woo:
 
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You got this chick in the palm of your hand. Have fun!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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