"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl invited herself to my place, what should I do?

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Basically I ran into this girl that's been eyeing me a lot lately, she walked up, called me by name, and asked me about her iPod:

"blah blah blah" *small talk ensues* She gave me her name, long story short she asked if she could come by my place this weekend and use my computer for her iTunes. I'm not sure what to make of this, I'm thinking one of two explanations:

A - She likes me and is using iPod as an excuse to hang out w/ me

OR

B - She is just using me for my computer and iTunes

Keep in mind I have had no previous interactions w/ this girl.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so you think she either has been "spying" to finally arrive at the opportunity to move forward with her devious plan to utilize you for your computer so she can upload a few new songs to her ipod, even though everyone on earth - including her friends probably - have computers that she can use. Playboy, I think she likes you. You lucky dog, you:)
 
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sosocool is right; she has to know plenty of people with computer access. It sounds like you might even be able to beat it up the first time she comes over. Start off with the kino as soon as she arrives at your place. Try to get her on the couch eventually to watch a movie or something...make sure to sit right next to her. Be playful with her...try to kiss her...escalate...


But sh1t, maybe she is using you for your computer...still worth a shot!
 
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Did she tell you, "erivera571, I heard you've got the biggest and greatest hard drive 'puter in town. I want to test it"?

How old are you/she? Are you attracted to her? Did she give you her phone number?

Anyway, I would tell her to come over late at night, as you're busy all day during weekend. If she shows, you know she wants your hard drive, and if she doesn't, you would have been home already, gettting ready to go to sleep.
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Did she tell you, "erivera571, I heard you've got the biggest and greatest hard drive 'puter in town. I want to test it"?

How old are you/she? Are you attracted to her? Did she give you her phone number?

Anyway, I would tell her to come over late at night, as you're busy all day during weekend. If she shows, you know she wants your hard drive, and if she doesn't, you would have been home already, gettting ready to go to sleep.
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Not really, she didn't mention anything in terms of computer skills during the convo, just mainly talking about her iPod.

As far as age, I'm 21 and she's 19. And yea, she's pretty hot imo. No, she didn't give her number, but I'm pretty sure I would've gotten it anyways if I had asked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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erivera571 said:
Not really, she didn't mention anything in terms of computer skills during the convo, just mainly talking about her iPod.

As far as age, I'm 21 and she's 19. And yea, she's pretty hot imo. No, she didn't give her number, but I'm pretty sure I would've gotten it anyways if I had asked.
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LoL, young man, I was playing when I said "hard drive", etc.

Anyway, why didn't you get her digits?

Next time she sees you, tell her, "Ok, If I let you use it, what will you do for me?" make her get creative, until she says "whatever you want", then tell her to cook for you, or bring you some take out. Off course, the frame here is that her looks alone will not be enough for you. She gets a lot of stuff for free, and favors just because of her looks, but with you, it will be different. Do it in a playful way that communicates you are onto what hot chicks do to guys. :D
 
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Doesn't matter. Rule #1: ALWAYS assume she likes you :woo:
 
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You got this chick in the palm of your hand. Have fun!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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