"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl interested in you, sees you talking to other girls?

FrankWank

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What happens in this situation, when a girl you know is interested in you and you know she is, and you talk to other women in their presence. This happens to me at the gym...what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JonJack

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You'll never know unless she becomes your close friend and you ask her. Generally though, in the beginning she'll feel dejected and maybe jealous that you're not showing her the most attention of all the girls. But then knowing all this doesn't really help at all man. Unless of course you are annoyed with this girl and you want to get on her nerves.
 

Dominant

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Originally posted by FrankWank
what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
Who cares what goes through her mind. Don't adapt your life around what women may or may not think of you.

If anything, if she sees you talking to other girls, she'll want you more. It's not a turn off by any means.

-Dominant
 
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