"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl interested in you, sees you talking to other girls?

FrankWank

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What happens in this situation, when a girl you know is interested in you and you know she is, and you talk to other women in their presence. This happens to me at the gym...what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JonJack

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You'll never know unless she becomes your close friend and you ask her. Generally though, in the beginning she'll feel dejected and maybe jealous that you're not showing her the most attention of all the girls. But then knowing all this doesn't really help at all man. Unless of course you are annoyed with this girl and you want to get on her nerves.
 

Dominant

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Originally posted by FrankWank
what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
Who cares what goes through her mind. Don't adapt your life around what women may or may not think of you.

If anything, if she sees you talking to other girls, she'll want you more. It's not a turn off by any means.

-Dominant
 
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