"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl interested in you, sees you talking to other girls?

FrankWank

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What happens in this situation, when a girl you know is interested in you and you know she is, and you talk to other women in their presence. This happens to me at the gym...what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JonJack

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You'll never know unless she becomes your close friend and you ask her. Generally though, in the beginning she'll feel dejected and maybe jealous that you're not showing her the most attention of all the girls. But then knowing all this doesn't really help at all man. Unless of course you are annoyed with this girl and you want to get on her nerves.
 

Dominant

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Originally posted by FrankWank
what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
Who cares what goes through her mind. Don't adapt your life around what women may or may not think of you.

If anything, if she sees you talking to other girls, she'll want you more. It's not a turn off by any means.

-Dominant
 
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