"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl interested in you, sees you talking to other girls?

FrankWank

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What happens in this situation, when a girl you know is interested in you and you know she is, and you talk to other women in their presence. This happens to me at the gym...what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JonJack

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You'll never know unless she becomes your close friend and you ask her. Generally though, in the beginning she'll feel dejected and maybe jealous that you're not showing her the most attention of all the girls. But then knowing all this doesn't really help at all man. Unless of course you are annoyed with this girl and you want to get on her nerves.
 

Dominant

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Originally posted by FrankWank
what goes through the womans mind (the one that likes you, though your not giving her much attention)
Who cares what goes through her mind. Don't adapt your life around what women may or may not think of you.

If anything, if she sees you talking to other girls, she'll want you more. It's not a turn off by any means.

-Dominant
 
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