"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
girl in my college class -- help
- Thread starter seabumma
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
"hey seabumma, yea i am on campus but im gonna be working on a project due tomorrow! Sorry! But would you wanna grab some lunch sometime next quarter? (I would suggest this week but my sched is full and im out of town next week)
"“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How should I respond to her text?
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Dude this is sad, your inner game needs serious work. I would've dropped this girl a long time ago, but then again, I would never act like you in the first place.
The only chance you have with her is to cut off all contact, don't let her see you for awhile, then the next time she does, you'd better be a badass leader in your socioeconomic realm with women sliming the floor around you and you not giving a f*ck. A bazooka on your shoulder, a cigar in your mouth and a thoroughbred under your saddle thrown in for good measure may make her look at you in a different way.
"Be the Flame, not the Moth."
this was my response just now:
"I do not want lunch next quarter, but thanks for the offer. haha just messing, yea thats fine, always down for food
. Good luck on the project""Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nope not Ohio state. I wonder if anyone from here does go to my college though, that would be pretty funny.Darth said:
So guys, I think i've done my part with this girl. Should I wait for her to contact me next quarter? OR should I send her a text sometime next quarter asking when I can take her out so I can fit her into my schedule?
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Agreed.GuanYu said:
@OP: Okay ElStud, stop posting. You ask questions, they answer, and you do it anyways... and fail miserably and pathetically.
BTW, are you and seabumma and seabuma the same? Troll?
It's like you come here and post to keep up your self-esteem... saying everything you're doing is right. Like you're putting up a show for us so you think we think that you're doing a good job. But in real life, you're creeping the hell out of this chick and you're being needy and clingy. But hey, at least you think that we think you're doing a good job.