"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
girl in my college class -- help
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"hey seabumma, yea i am on campus but im gonna be working on a project due tomorrow! Sorry! But would you wanna grab some lunch sometime next quarter? (I would suggest this week but my sched is full and im out of town next week)
""I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How should I respond to her text?
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Dude this is sad, your inner game needs serious work. I would've dropped this girl a long time ago, but then again, I would never act like you in the first place.
The only chance you have with her is to cut off all contact, don't let her see you for awhile, then the next time she does, you'd better be a badass leader in your socioeconomic realm with women sliming the floor around you and you not giving a f*ck. A bazooka on your shoulder, a cigar in your mouth and a thoroughbred under your saddle thrown in for good measure may make her look at you in a different way.
"Be the Flame, not the Moth."
this was my response just now:
"I do not want lunch next quarter, but thanks for the offer. haha just messing, yea thats fine, always down for food
. Good luck on the project""Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nope not Ohio state. I wonder if anyone from here does go to my college though, that would be pretty funny.Darth said:
So guys, I think i've done my part with this girl. Should I wait for her to contact me next quarter? OR should I send her a text sometime next quarter asking when I can take her out so I can fit her into my schedule?
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Agreed.GuanYu said:
@OP: Okay ElStud, stop posting. You ask questions, they answer, and you do it anyways... and fail miserably and pathetically.
BTW, are you and seabumma and seabuma the same? Troll?
It's like you come here and post to keep up your self-esteem... saying everything you're doing is right. Like you're putting up a show for us so you think we think that you're doing a good job. But in real life, you're creeping the hell out of this chick and you're being needy and clingy. But hey, at least you think that we think you're doing a good job.