"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
girl in my college class -- help
- Thread starter seabumma
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
"hey seabumma, yea i am on campus but im gonna be working on a project due tomorrow! Sorry! But would you wanna grab some lunch sometime next quarter? (I would suggest this week but my sched is full and im out of town next week)
""You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How should I respond to her text?
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Dude this is sad, your inner game needs serious work. I would've dropped this girl a long time ago, but then again, I would never act like you in the first place.
The only chance you have with her is to cut off all contact, don't let her see you for awhile, then the next time she does, you'd better be a badass leader in your socioeconomic realm with women sliming the floor around you and you not giving a f*ck. A bazooka on your shoulder, a cigar in your mouth and a thoroughbred under your saddle thrown in for good measure may make her look at you in a different way.
"Be the Flame, not the Moth."
this was my response just now:
"I do not want lunch next quarter, but thanks for the offer. haha just messing, yea thats fine, always down for food
. Good luck on the project"“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Nope not Ohio state. I wonder if anyone from here does go to my college though, that would be pretty funny.Darth said:
So guys, I think i've done my part with this girl. Should I wait for her to contact me next quarter? OR should I send her a text sometime next quarter asking when I can take her out so I can fit her into my schedule?
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Agreed.GuanYu said:
@OP: Okay ElStud, stop posting. You ask questions, they answer, and you do it anyways... and fail miserably and pathetically.
BTW, are you and seabumma and seabuma the same? Troll?
It's like you come here and post to keep up your self-esteem... saying everything you're doing is right. Like you're putting up a show for us so you think we think that you're doing a good job. But in real life, you're creeping the hell out of this chick and you're being needy and clingy. But hey, at least you think that we think you're doing a good job.