Girl in my chemistry class

[dudewut]

Errr how do I do this again? I havent done this in a long time....about 2 years, mostly the girls I went out with/have oneitis with approached me or are people I knew from before who became single.

I am kinda hesitant because she seems like the Ice princess type of person, like she does not smile at all (who smiles at a lab anyway? well except me and my buddies, we make everything fun) and she walks out of class like really quick, you know the type. And I am worried that if she blows me off that 4 hours we have at lab will be really, really uncomfortable

 

[Iceberg]

You're putting way to much pressure on this approach.

All you have to do is talk about class. Then transition into talking about life. Then talk about your social life. Perhaps the awesome weekend you had. Then you say, "Yeah that bar/club/place is awesome. We should go some time. What's your number."

It's a relaxed approach. It doesn't have the burden of asking someone out on a "DATE". It's just an invitation to come out for some fun.

 

[dudewut]

You're putting way to much pressure on this approach.

All you have to do is talk about class. Then transition into talking about life. Then talk about your social life. Perhaps the awesome weekend you had. Then you say, "Yeah that bar/club/place is awesome. We should go some time. What's your number."

It's a relaxed approach. It doesn't have the burden of asking someone out on a "DATE". It's just an invitation to come out for some fun.

trust me, I will talk to her its just that I got a "dont talk to me" vibe from her for some reason...I mean we do talk about class and she approaches our side and talks to my group about chemistry stuff, other than that we dont even say hi outside of class.

 

[Deicide]

Just go approach her. You have nothing to lose. Once you have approached enough, you stop caring what people think of you. I'm not good at cold approaching by any means, but I've done enough of them to know that you have to go for what your heart and mind want, otherwise you will keep regretting it.

 

[The College Jock]

Let go of your desire before you run in there. It will give you peace of mind if at first you don't succeed.

 

[dudewut]

I will have a test here, I will say hi next time I see her on the hallway then I will know what I should do then.....