Ok, so I was getting heavy EC from a girl in the library last week. I was about to go up to her, but my substitute was being a **** and told me to sit down. Anyways a kid I know is friends with her and talked to her and I saw her pointing at me. I didn't get a chance to talk to her before she left, so what can I say to this kid to be able to talk to her?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girl in Library
- Thread starter banzai07
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cmon fellow DJs the least you guys can do is say something at least.here goes:
Well fellow banzai, the beginning step you shouldve taken was to return the eye contact with a BIIIG smile. Since the sub was being a complete prick, you could start gesturing to her while you two are maintaining eye contact that she waits for you after the class is done so you two can chat.
the next time you meet her, bust on her with stuff like"Hey, I know you're attracted to me but couldn't you at least make it more subtle?" With a big smile of course!
Go for it banzai
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Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.
Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.