Ok, so I was getting heavy EC from a girl in the library last week. I was about to go up to her, but my substitute was being a **** and told me to sit down. Anyways a kid I know is friends with her and talked to her and I saw her pointing at me. I didn't get a chance to talk to her before she left, so what can I say to this kid to be able to talk to her?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl in Library
- Thread starter banzai07
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cmon fellow DJs the least you guys can do is say something at least.here goes:
Well fellow banzai, the beginning step you shouldve taken was to return the eye contact with a BIIIG smile. Since the sub was being a complete prick, you could start gesturing to her while you two are maintaining eye contact that she waits for you after the class is done so you two can chat.
the next time you meet her, bust on her with stuff like"Hey, I know you're attracted to me but couldn't you at least make it more subtle?" With a big smile of course!
Go for it banzai
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Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.
Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.