Ok, so I was getting heavy EC from a girl in the library last week. I was about to go up to her, but my substitute was being a **** and told me to sit down. Anyways a kid I know is friends with her and talked to her and I saw her pointing at me. I didn't get a chance to talk to her before she left, so what can I say to this kid to be able to talk to her?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girl in Library
- Thread starter banzai07
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cmon fellow DJs the least you guys can do is say something at least.here goes:
Well fellow banzai, the beginning step you shouldve taken was to return the eye contact with a BIIIG smile. Since the sub was being a complete prick, you could start gesturing to her while you two are maintaining eye contact that she waits for you after the class is done so you two can chat.
the next time you meet her, bust on her with stuff like"Hey, I know you're attracted to me but couldn't you at least make it more subtle?" With a big smile of course!
Go for it banzai
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Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.
Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.