Ok, so I was getting heavy EC from a girl in the library last week. I was about to go up to her, but my substitute was being a **** and told me to sit down. Anyways a kid I know is friends with her and talked to her and I saw her pointing at me. I didn't get a chance to talk to her before she left, so what can I say to this kid to be able to talk to her?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girl in Library
- Thread starter banzai07
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cmon fellow DJs the least you guys can do is say something at least.here goes:
Well fellow banzai, the beginning step you shouldve taken was to return the eye contact with a BIIIG smile. Since the sub was being a complete prick, you could start gesturing to her while you two are maintaining eye contact that she waits for you after the class is done so you two can chat.
the next time you meet her, bust on her with stuff like"Hey, I know you're attracted to me but couldn't you at least make it more subtle?" With a big smile of course!
Go for it banzai
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Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.
Err, just talk to her, go to get a book or something. If this sub's eyeballing you big time, write 'talk to me' on a note, get your book and throw her the note, sit back down and play nice.