"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girl i was fuking - we never talk anymore.. next?

tony-montana

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so this girl i used to fuk for a couple months every few days of the week.. we hung out quite often but now we never talk anymore after she explained she doesnt want to do the fuk buddy thing. im pretty sure shes seein other guys anyway. im not really interested that much anymore either but if she did one day ask for a fuk i wouldnt mind. should i just delete her number, her msn, etc? we havent spoken in like 3 weeks and i dont see myself contacting her. shes just sitting there on my msn all the time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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horaholic

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Dont do anything. just let it be. No reason to delete her, unless you find yourself wanting to drunk dial her. Who cares?
 

HeyPachuco!

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tony-montana said:
shes just sitting there on my msn all the time.
Lol.

I've never got the whole "Fvck Buddy" thing.

What do you guys say to girls you've cold approached and eventually scored with, after sex? Oh do you want to be Fvck Buddies, what? Or is this something simultaneously, whereby you just date (see) each other but Fvck and nothing else (Non-dating activities such as Cinema, outdoor activities, pillow talk, dinner dates etc).

Is there like some Non-verbal statement made between you and the girl?

I've only got the "We can be like FB's.." from one girl ever, the rest was simultaneous shenanigans there on. So I'm interested in knowing if you guys actually VERBALLY ASK chicks to be FB's?
 

tony-montana

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HeyPachuco! said:
Lol.

I've never got the whole "Fvck Buddy" thing.

What do you guys say to girls you've cold approached and eventually scored with, after sex? Oh do you want to be Fvck Buddies, what? Or is this something simultaneously, whereby you just date (see) each other but Fvck and nothing else (Non-dating activities such as Cinema, outdoor activities, pillow talk, dinner dates etc).

Is there like some Non-verbal statement made between you and the girl?

I've only got the "We can be like FB's.." from one girl ever, the rest was simultaneous shenanigans there on. So I'm interested in knowing if you guys actually VERBALLY ASK chicks to be FB's?
lol well it usually just turns into that kind of relationship where you hang out and just fuk and you both know it's just that. in my case, this girl and i spoke about it. she told me she wanted to be friends before anything happened but i didn't have it and made moves, we ended up just fuking for a couple months every few days and it just died off and she told me she didn't want to do it anymore and yea, we don't talk anymore... thats the way i like it. no fuss, no problems.
 

HeyPachuco!

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Gotcha!,

Well knowing what you mean now, I usually DON'T delete them off my contacts. It's weird, because I was in this predicament a few weeks ago last month. A girl I tried to Fvck once, wasn't giving it up, so I nexted her (But kept her contact - MSN and Phone-number). I was on an outing with friends when she called out of the blue after months of no contact.

She traveled all the way to see me (we live very very far apart) and we fvcked for like 24 hours. Although this is a different situation, I'd say keep her in the rusty old book dude, you might be randomly jacking off about her a year down the line and want to feel the insides of her ladygarden for sh!ts and giggles again.

P.S I keep store of numbers of chicks I may have to refer back to if I Fvck Out of Control and catch an STD or worse so I can put them in a world of sh!t for future reference.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tony-montana,

Forget about her and move on...One of these days she will call you wanting to 'hook up' and give you some pvssy..

cavedweller
 

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Ask yourself, are you gaining anything from deleting her? in what ways does deleting her contact info benefit you? I'd say keep her, unless its hurting you in some way to keep her info.
 
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