Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girl i was fuking - we never talk anymore.. next?

tony-montana

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so this girl i used to fuk for a couple months every few days of the week.. we hung out quite often but now we never talk anymore after she explained she doesnt want to do the fuk buddy thing. im pretty sure shes seein other guys anyway. im not really interested that much anymore either but if she did one day ask for a fuk i wouldnt mind. should i just delete her number, her msn, etc? we havent spoken in like 3 weeks and i dont see myself contacting her. shes just sitting there on my msn all the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic

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Dont do anything. just let it be. No reason to delete her, unless you find yourself wanting to drunk dial her. Who cares?
 

HeyPachuco!

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tony-montana said:
shes just sitting there on my msn all the time.
Lol.

I've never got the whole "Fvck Buddy" thing.

What do you guys say to girls you've cold approached and eventually scored with, after sex? Oh do you want to be Fvck Buddies, what? Or is this something simultaneously, whereby you just date (see) each other but Fvck and nothing else (Non-dating activities such as Cinema, outdoor activities, pillow talk, dinner dates etc).

Is there like some Non-verbal statement made between you and the girl?

I've only got the "We can be like FB's.." from one girl ever, the rest was simultaneous shenanigans there on. So I'm interested in knowing if you guys actually VERBALLY ASK chicks to be FB's?
 

tony-montana

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HeyPachuco! said:
Lol.

I've never got the whole "Fvck Buddy" thing.

What do you guys say to girls you've cold approached and eventually scored with, after sex? Oh do you want to be Fvck Buddies, what? Or is this something simultaneously, whereby you just date (see) each other but Fvck and nothing else (Non-dating activities such as Cinema, outdoor activities, pillow talk, dinner dates etc).

Is there like some Non-verbal statement made between you and the girl?

I've only got the "We can be like FB's.." from one girl ever, the rest was simultaneous shenanigans there on. So I'm interested in knowing if you guys actually VERBALLY ASK chicks to be FB's?
lol well it usually just turns into that kind of relationship where you hang out and just fuk and you both know it's just that. in my case, this girl and i spoke about it. she told me she wanted to be friends before anything happened but i didn't have it and made moves, we ended up just fuking for a couple months every few days and it just died off and she told me she didn't want to do it anymore and yea, we don't talk anymore... thats the way i like it. no fuss, no problems.
 

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Gotcha!,

Well knowing what you mean now, I usually DON'T delete them off my contacts. It's weird, because I was in this predicament a few weeks ago last month. A girl I tried to Fvck once, wasn't giving it up, so I nexted her (But kept her contact - MSN and Phone-number). I was on an outing with friends when she called out of the blue after months of no contact.

She traveled all the way to see me (we live very very far apart) and we fvcked for like 24 hours. Although this is a different situation, I'd say keep her in the rusty old book dude, you might be randomly jacking off about her a year down the line and want to feel the insides of her ladygarden for sh!ts and giggles again.

P.S I keep store of numbers of chicks I may have to refer back to if I Fvck Out of Control and catch an STD or worse so I can put them in a world of sh!t for future reference.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tony-montana,

Forget about her and move on...One of these days she will call you wanting to 'hook up' and give you some pvssy..

cavedweller
 

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Ask yourself, are you gaining anything from deleting her? in what ways does deleting her contact info benefit you? I'd say keep her, unless its hurting you in some way to keep her info.
 
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