"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl i was fuking - we never talk anymore.. next?

tony-montana

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so this girl i used to fuk for a couple months every few days of the week.. we hung out quite often but now we never talk anymore after she explained she doesnt want to do the fuk buddy thing. im pretty sure shes seein other guys anyway. im not really interested that much anymore either but if she did one day ask for a fuk i wouldnt mind. should i just delete her number, her msn, etc? we havent spoken in like 3 weeks and i dont see myself contacting her. shes just sitting there on my msn all the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dont do anything. just let it be. No reason to delete her, unless you find yourself wanting to drunk dial her. Who cares?
 

HeyPachuco!

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tony-montana said:
shes just sitting there on my msn all the time.
Lol.

I've never got the whole "Fvck Buddy" thing.

What do you guys say to girls you've cold approached and eventually scored with, after sex? Oh do you want to be Fvck Buddies, what? Or is this something simultaneously, whereby you just date (see) each other but Fvck and nothing else (Non-dating activities such as Cinema, outdoor activities, pillow talk, dinner dates etc).

Is there like some Non-verbal statement made between you and the girl?

I've only got the "We can be like FB's.." from one girl ever, the rest was simultaneous shenanigans there on. So I'm interested in knowing if you guys actually VERBALLY ASK chicks to be FB's?
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Lol.

I've never got the whole "Fvck Buddy" thing.

What do you guys say to girls you've cold approached and eventually scored with, after sex? Oh do you want to be Fvck Buddies, what? Or is this something simultaneously, whereby you just date (see) each other but Fvck and nothing else (Non-dating activities such as Cinema, outdoor activities, pillow talk, dinner dates etc).

Is there like some Non-verbal statement made between you and the girl?

I've only got the "We can be like FB's.." from one girl ever, the rest was simultaneous shenanigans there on. So I'm interested in knowing if you guys actually VERBALLY ASK chicks to be FB's?
lol well it usually just turns into that kind of relationship where you hang out and just fuk and you both know it's just that. in my case, this girl and i spoke about it. she told me she wanted to be friends before anything happened but i didn't have it and made moves, we ended up just fuking for a couple months every few days and it just died off and she told me she didn't want to do it anymore and yea, we don't talk anymore... thats the way i like it. no fuss, no problems.
 

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Gotcha!,

Well knowing what you mean now, I usually DON'T delete them off my contacts. It's weird, because I was in this predicament a few weeks ago last month. A girl I tried to Fvck once, wasn't giving it up, so I nexted her (But kept her contact - MSN and Phone-number). I was on an outing with friends when she called out of the blue after months of no contact.

She traveled all the way to see me (we live very very far apart) and we fvcked for like 24 hours. Although this is a different situation, I'd say keep her in the rusty old book dude, you might be randomly jacking off about her a year down the line and want to feel the insides of her ladygarden for sh!ts and giggles again.

P.S I keep store of numbers of chicks I may have to refer back to if I Fvck Out of Control and catch an STD or worse so I can put them in a world of sh!t for future reference.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tony-montana,

Forget about her and move on...One of these days she will call you wanting to 'hook up' and give you some pvssy..

cavedweller
 

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Ask yourself, are you gaining anything from deleting her? in what ways does deleting her contact info benefit you? I'd say keep her, unless its hurting you in some way to keep her info.
 
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