Im saying id ask her IF SHE msgs me im not going to msg her , either that or ignore because i dont want to respond and just tlk for the sake of talking obviously. So what are you sayinf i should ignore her ? I doubt she will randomly msg me asking me to make plans in her first msg , i feel like i have to ask her to make plans , but at the same time im over the bull**** and i dont want to ask her for her to make excuses again then ill regret replying to her and trying again. So i dunno weather i should just ignore her or give a response like : lol
Or do what somone told me eailer : say im busy and to hit me up when shes ready to make plans etc
You've cucked yourself so hard that you're afraid of losing her. You're in no mental state to go the games route. You should forget about her, ignore her, not ask her again wtf, and move on.
In fact you sound like you got nothing else going on. As in no passions or craft or career you're focusing on. That should be your first love, women are an optional side dish. You sound like you're seeking fulfillment from women like a child looking for his mama. Like you're trying to distract yourself from a shiit life with this girl.
Snap out of it dude. Focus on yourself until you got ice in your veins. Then you won't be wondering wtf she's thinking and you won't be thinking so hard about what to say. Women love dudes that have a life, the ones they have to work for. And those dudes are a force of nature, they don't spend time drawing out game plans of what to say, they got better shiit to do!
You're already harboring tons of resentment towards her, that's why you're getting salty about it. That is some weak weak shiit and you have no one to blame but yourself for coming back to her AGAIN and AGAIN to get the same treatment. You clearly think you deserve this shiit otherwise you'd stop.
Your self worth/self respect is in the toilet and it's cringey af to read how desperate you are for this shiitty woman's attention.
You're like a crackhead trying to quit. "Just one more hit then I'll stop!" No mofo that's not how quitting works, stop now! Get your shiit together, then talk to women that are into you. You'll know because they won't play games.