"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Energy25

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry :(
i still like ya though.
(her name)....

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there You should have stopped there and slightly changed the subject. If you put too much pressure on her, you'll lose her. so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, BAM! Kicked you as I assumed. You put a lot of pressure on her. She felt uncomfortable and she did the only thing she knew how to do. Remove herself from the situation. Even if it meant removing you. but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry
i still like ya though.
(her name).... Nice save. It's not something I would have done, but you made her somewhat comfortable.

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
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Give her some time. Wait a day or two. Don't seem too into her as not to show that she is all you think about. Personally, I can't tell you what to have a conversation about. That takes practice and wit. Also, I'm still somewhat new at this, so I recommend taking advice on what to say next from a more experienced DJ. I would talk about some of the strangest people I have met. Take a subject and make it relate-able to you and her. You have experiences to share. Use them to your advantage.
 
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