"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Energy25

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry :(
i still like ya though.
(her name)....

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there You should have stopped there and slightly changed the subject. If you put too much pressure on her, you'll lose her. so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, BAM! Kicked you as I assumed. You put a lot of pressure on her. She felt uncomfortable and she did the only thing she knew how to do. Remove herself from the situation. Even if it meant removing you. but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry
i still like ya though.
(her name).... Nice save. It's not something I would have done, but you made her somewhat comfortable.

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
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Give her some time. Wait a day or two. Don't seem too into her as not to show that she is all you think about. Personally, I can't tell you what to have a conversation about. That takes practice and wit. Also, I'm still somewhat new at this, so I recommend taking advice on what to say next from a more experienced DJ. I would talk about some of the strangest people I have met. Take a subject and make it relate-able to you and her. You have experiences to share. Use them to your advantage.
 
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