"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry :(
i still like ya though.
(her name)....

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there You should have stopped there and slightly changed the subject. If you put too much pressure on her, you'll lose her. so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, BAM! Kicked you as I assumed. You put a lot of pressure on her. She felt uncomfortable and she did the only thing she knew how to do. Remove herself from the situation. Even if it meant removing you. but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry
i still like ya though.
(her name).... Nice save. It's not something I would have done, but you made her somewhat comfortable.

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
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Give her some time. Wait a day or two. Don't seem too into her as not to show that she is all you think about. Personally, I can't tell you what to have a conversation about. That takes practice and wit. Also, I'm still somewhat new at this, so I recommend taking advice on what to say next from a more experienced DJ. I would talk about some of the strangest people I have met. Take a subject and make it relate-able to you and her. You have experiences to share. Use them to your advantage.
 
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