Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry :(
i still like ya though.
(her name)....

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I met this girl on www.stickam.com who lives pretty close to me and I talked to her and she seemed interested so i asked if she texted but she said she doesn't give out her number to people on there You should have stopped there and slightly changed the subject. If you put too much pressure on her, you'll lose her. so I asked if she had facebook and then she kicked me from her room lol, BAM! Kicked you as I assumed. You put a lot of pressure on her. She felt uncomfortable and she did the only thing she knew how to do. Remove herself from the situation. Even if it meant removing you. but then I messaged her and said i know there's lots of creeps and weirdos on stickam but that im not one of them lol and she messaged back "haha okay thanks. i just didnt wanna give out any of my private info. im sorry
i still like ya though.
(her name).... Nice save. It's not something I would have done, but you made her somewhat comfortable.

My question is what should I message back to her? I guess I'll have to message with her on stickam until she feels comfortable enough to give me her number. In order for that to happen, what should I focus our messages and "conversations" on?
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Give her some time. Wait a day or two. Don't seem too into her as not to show that she is all you think about. Personally, I can't tell you what to have a conversation about. That takes practice and wit. Also, I'm still somewhat new at this, so I recommend taking advice on what to say next from a more experienced DJ. I would talk about some of the strangest people I have met. Take a subject and make it relate-able to you and her. You have experiences to share. Use them to your advantage.
 
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