I've liked this girl for a while, and she and her bf recently broke up about a month ago.
A few nights ago i was texting her and she said, "We haven't hung out in like a week." and i said, "Yeah, I know, I've been busy." and she said, "I've missed you." and i said, "Haha, i've missed ya too. We should hang out. How about tomorrow?" and she said, "Well, i'm broke... " and i said, "Don't worry about it. I've been working. I can spot ya." and she said, "That's money you shouldn't waste on me." and i said, "I'm either spending it on drugs or you. Your call." and she said, "Haha, me " so then I tell her i'm gonna catch some z's and i'll tell her later
Day goes by and I text her saying, "Hey, we still on for tonight?" and she said, "I'm sorry! I already made plans today and i'd be a jerk if i cancelled." and i said, "I thought we made plans for today? Whatever you do, have fun." and she said, "Wow, i can't believe you're mad at me. I made these plans at 12. Way to be immature." and i said, "Who said i was mad? I said have fun. I thought i handled it maturely considering we made plans before you made plans with that other person." and she said, "You know what? Whatever." and i said, "Have a fun night" and she said, "Bye." That really pissed me off. I tried to handle it without being pissed off and showing anger, but its like she wanted me to be pissed and it pissed her off that i wasn't.
Then today i had to work with her on a project for a class. I figured if i acted like nothing happened I'd be in a better position for dealing with her. So i was really chill with her. Then she started talking and said, "Hey, i'm sorry about last night. We can still hang out tomorrow if you want." and i said, "No, sorry, I can't. Plans." and she said, "But i thought you wanted to hang out with me.." and i said, "Yeah, i really did, but i'm not so sure about that anymore." and she said, "Well who do you have plans with." and I said, "A girl. You don't know her." and she said, "Oh... well what's she like?" and i said, "She's really cool. I like her a lot." She just left it at that.
I really like this girl a lot. I'm hanging out with a girl tomorrow, but she's just a friend, although i left that part out with her. I figure if i act like i'm not affected it'll really get under her skin. I could tell it sort of did when I told her i didn't want to hang with her. What should i do from here?
A few nights ago i was texting her and she said, "We haven't hung out in like a week." and i said, "Yeah, I know, I've been busy." and she said, "I've missed you." and i said, "Haha, i've missed ya too. We should hang out. How about tomorrow?" and she said, "Well, i'm broke... " and i said, "Don't worry about it. I've been working. I can spot ya." and she said, "That's money you shouldn't waste on me." and i said, "I'm either spending it on drugs or you. Your call." and she said, "Haha, me " so then I tell her i'm gonna catch some z's and i'll tell her later
Day goes by and I text her saying, "Hey, we still on for tonight?" and she said, "I'm sorry! I already made plans today and i'd be a jerk if i cancelled." and i said, "I thought we made plans for today? Whatever you do, have fun." and she said, "Wow, i can't believe you're mad at me. I made these plans at 12. Way to be immature." and i said, "Who said i was mad? I said have fun. I thought i handled it maturely considering we made plans before you made plans with that other person." and she said, "You know what? Whatever." and i said, "Have a fun night" and she said, "Bye." That really pissed me off. I tried to handle it without being pissed off and showing anger, but its like she wanted me to be pissed and it pissed her off that i wasn't.
Then today i had to work with her on a project for a class. I figured if i acted like nothing happened I'd be in a better position for dealing with her. So i was really chill with her. Then she started talking and said, "Hey, i'm sorry about last night. We can still hang out tomorrow if you want." and i said, "No, sorry, I can't. Plans." and she said, "But i thought you wanted to hang out with me.." and i said, "Yeah, i really did, but i'm not so sure about that anymore." and she said, "Well who do you have plans with." and I said, "A girl. You don't know her." and she said, "Oh... well what's she like?" and i said, "She's really cool. I like her a lot." She just left it at that.
I really like this girl a lot. I'm hanging out with a girl tomorrow, but she's just a friend, although i left that part out with her. I figure if i act like i'm not affected it'll really get under her skin. I could tell it sort of did when I told her i didn't want to hang with her. What should i do from here?