"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girl I dated sent me pics of her and another guy...what's it mean?

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This girl is probably the closest I have ever been with anyone, but I have still been really distant, and an a-hole.

She got back from vacation and sent me an email at like 7am the day she got back, and then was calling and I ignored it.

Then she said that a guy smiled and winked at her, and another one gave her his number, and another said she was hot. (I told her to call that guy and go out on a date with him, and she said he is not her type)

Then she emailed me a picture of her in bed, and there was a guy standing by the window in the room with her, and she said he was a hot guy she met on vacation.

I told her to say thanks to him for taking her off my hands.

Then she says "it's not fair the way you are acting, you tell me about every girl you f*ck, and me and that guy did not even have sex."

And right after that she told me that she had a dream about me coming to see her on a horse. Is she crazy or what?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh, forgot to say that in my reply to her pics with the guy, I sent her a pic with two girls sucking my d*ck. :D
 
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good work son. bitches aint shit...
 
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brekke said:
Then she says "it's not fair the way you are acting, you tell me about every girl you f*ck, and me and that guy did not even have sex."

And right after that she told me that she had a dream about me coming to see her on a horse. Is she crazy or what?
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A) Well then you're the dumb*** for telling her about girls you bang.

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oh, forgot to say that in my reply to her pics with the guy, I sent her a pic with two girls sucking my d*ck. :D
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B) No you didn't.
 
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Mantis Toboggan said:
A) Well then you're the dumb*** for telling her about girls you bang.

B) No you didn't.
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That's not dumb, it just comes up in conversation sometimes, and yeah I did, and she did not even say anything about it.

Thanks for the helpful reply loser.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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brekke said:
This girl is probably the closest I have ever been with anyone, but I have still been really distant, and an a-hole.
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im guessing u have taken the advice a bit too extreme

why do guys think they have to be a-holes?
theres a big difference between an alpha guy who doesnt put up with crap and an A-hole?

you shouldn't be too distant either, be a challenge, not emotionally unavailable, big differernce

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Then she says "it's not fair the way you are acting, you tell me about every girl you f*ck, and me and that guy did not even have sex."
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you're a dumass
 
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r0cky said:
Seems to me like you're both f'ed in the head.
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I wish I could be the kind of "f'ed in the head" that gets you two chicks that are willing to have their picture taken while they're blowing you at the same time.
 
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Just a Shot Away said:
I wish I could be the kind of "f'ed in the head" that gets you two chicks that are willing to have their picture taken while they're blowing you at the same time.
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either that or he's lying to make himself look like a pimp. I always take what ppl say on the internets with a grain of salt.
 
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I want to know how you got a picture of 2 girls sucking you off.

Getting 1 girl to agree to that is a problem for me!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ease said:
I want to know how you got a picture of 2 girls sucking you off.

Getting 1 girl to agree to that is a problem for me!
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Be slick with a camera phone! Simple and quick! Judge nismo-4 does it in chambers!

Case closed!
 
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nismo-4 said:
Be slick with a camera phone! Simple and quick! Judge nismo-4 does it in chambers!

Case closed!
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wonder if I could get away with that? My camera always makes this damn loud "click" sound when you take a pic, lol. Wouldn't want that to spoil the mood.

Me: Why don't you suck my **** baby?
Her: Ok
*CLICK*
Her: What the fvck was that?
Me: Nothing :whistle:
 
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So you come running to this forum cuz a girl sent u a pic after you tell her other girls give u head? What do you want from us?
 
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Just a Shot Away said:
I wish I could be the kind of "f'ed in the head" that gets you two chicks that are willing to have their picture taken while they're blowing you at the same time.
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The type of guy who gets this kind of action is the type that you would never see in a forum like this.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If any guy is on here that is not an internet stud, what is the best way to reply to this girl?

I have read some helpful things on this forum, but it is mostly crap from losers. What kind of "dj"s are you if you do not believe a guy gets laid?
 
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brekke said:
If any guy is on here that is not an internet stud, what is the best way to reply to this girl?

I have read some helpful things on this forum, but it is mostly crap from losers. What kind of "dj"s are you if you do not believe a guy gets laid?
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You wanna know why I know you're an attention wh*re? You're trying to start sh*t like this to get more attention.

No one is disputing you getting laid.
 
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Why does this b!tch even matter if you can get head from two girls at the same time?

Don't chase, replace.
 
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damn that's a lot of hating. just let it alone, guys.
 
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OK, I will ask you guys again. Any advice is appreciated. Is she trying to elicit a certain response from me?



I have been ignoring her calls. Is this BS or what?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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