Girl holding off on giving me her number.

[S-lemond]

yea give her your number

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by E_ze05
yea give her your number

I tried that.. but this girl told me that she would rather have me call her first.


I guess she is traditional that way.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by 00Kevin

Do quality women (the ones that are good for LTRs) take more time to pursue?


The reason I ask this is that I've noticed that my DJ skills work really well on hot girls but they don't work on the women who are, with lack of a better word, “wholesome”.

I find that I have to tone it down a bit for the good girls.

The reason I say this is that I've noticed that the good girls don't put you through **** tests. Furthermore, the good girls are not little princesses. When that is a case you don’t have to put forth your entire game. In fact you have to tone it down a lot. [/B]

I don't really think women can be delineated as either wholesome or hot in this case. I think a better division is by women who know what they want and women who think that they know what they want.

I've found that women who truly know what they want in a guy AND trust themselves enough to be able to handle if they make a bad choice or not are usually more up front and less into either the game playing or the extreme take it slow type stuff.

You can usually recognize these type of women by their initial profile or correspondence they send you. Their character traits are usually confidence, straight forward (not necessarily brash) and they will tell you specifically what they liked about your profile or email. They will usually tell you straight away. Also, they don't usually play the "we'll trade a ton of emails" type games.

They are usually decent qualifiers and would want to move things along if they see that you could be the one. Don't be surprised if they skip the whole phone thing and ask to meet for coffee. I like that type of woman. Even if there isn't a romantic connection, she is usually a woman I could hang out with just because she's cool and confident.

 

[griffon65]

^^ most girls(95%) I've talked to online that showed interest like his girl did, gave me a number as soon as I asked.

btw bro I did read that she gave you her number before I put up my post. It still doesnt change the fact that shes highly likely to have no interest. But i hope I'm wrong

 

[( . )( . )]

Things sometimes work a bit differently online

For chicks? this is the understatement of the year.

Why should she give you her number? She's satisfied in knowing that she can chat with you online for weeks at a time. Face it, women who are truly interested will make themselves available to you, this one won't even let you call her.

Nailed it.


Whether she finally caved and reluctantly gave up her number to keep you chasing after the dangled carrot is irrelevant, has nothing to do with anything and youve totally missed the bigger picture.

Until you stick your d!ck in her puzzy getting defensive is futile and just sh!t talk.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Right now your mind is enraptured in an online fantasy. You don't even know this chick so how do you know she's "wholesome" or ltr material? You'd have to date her for at least a few months before you can come to that conclusion.

If your ignoring strategy worked then she knew she had to do something to keep you coming back for more so she gave you the number to appease you so you'll keep chasing the dangling carrot.