"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Girl holding off on giving me her number.
- Thread starter 00Kevin
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I don't really think women can be delineated as either wholesome or hot in this case. I think a better division is by women who know what they want and women who think that they know what they want.
I've found that women who truly know what they want in a guy AND trust themselves enough to be able to handle if they make a bad choice or not are usually more up front and less into either the game playing or the extreme take it slow type stuff.
You can usually recognize these type of women by their initial profile or correspondence they send you. Their character traits are usually confidence, straight forward (not necessarily brash) and they will tell you specifically what they liked about your profile or email. They will usually tell you straight away. Also, they don't usually play the "we'll trade a ton of emails" type games.
They are usually decent qualifiers and would want to move things along if they see that you could be the one. Don't be surprised if they skip the whole phone thing and ask to meet for coffee. I like that type of woman. Even if there isn't a romantic connection, she is usually a woman I could hang out with just because she's cool and confident.
btw bro I did read that she gave you her number before I put up my post. It still doesnt change the fact that shes highly likely to have no interest. But i hope I'm wrong
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Banned
For chicks? this is the understatement of the year.
Nailed it.
Whether she finally caved and reluctantly gave up her number to keep you chasing after the dangled carrot is irrelevant, has nothing to do with anything and youve totally missed the bigger picture.
Until you stick your d!ck in her puzzy getting defensive is futile and just sh!t talk.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
If your ignoring strategy worked then she knew she had to do something to keep you coming back for more so she gave you the number to appease you so you'll keep chasing the dangling carrot.