"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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psychgrad

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hey guys, I am talking to this girl and I make her laugh and craqck jokes on her. And when I neg her, it seems like she wants to slap me or something but she hesitates and does not do it. we seem to get along well, but I wonder why she hesitates? because I always kino her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bill

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Doesn't matter, it's a non-issue. You're doing great, don't start overanalyzing the smallest things.

-Bill
 

superchristx

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This is completely normal, especially if you have extreme/intense game. Basically you're causing two emotions in her at once and she can't think.

She's yours for the taking.
 

psychgrad

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Originally posted by superchristx
This is completely normal, especially if you have extreme/intense game. Basically you're causing two emotions in her at once and she can't think.

She's yours for the taking.

uhm, i dont think i have that much game, but i think she is used to guys handing her everything and I dont at all.

thkns
 

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Ask her what she's thinking about. Ask her if she wants to hit you.

Don't just stare at her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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