"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey guys, I am talking to this girl and I make her laugh and craqck jokes on her. And when I neg her, it seems like she wants to slap me or something but she hesitates and does not do it. we seem to get along well, but I wonder why she hesitates? because I always kino her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Doesn't matter, it's a non-issue. You're doing great, don't start overanalyzing the smallest things.

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This is completely normal, especially if you have extreme/intense game. Basically you're causing two emotions in her at once and she can't think.

She's yours for the taking.
 
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Originally posted by superchristx
This is completely normal, especially if you have extreme/intense game. Basically you're causing two emotions in her at once and she can't think.

She's yours for the taking.
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uhm, i dont think i have that much game, but i think she is used to guys handing her everything and I dont at all.

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Ask her what she's thinking about. Ask her if she wants to hit you.

Don't just stare at her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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