"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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psychgrad

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hey guys, I am talking to this girl and I make her laugh and craqck jokes on her. And when I neg her, it seems like she wants to slap me or something but she hesitates and does not do it. we seem to get along well, but I wonder why she hesitates? because I always kino her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bill

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Doesn't matter, it's a non-issue. You're doing great, don't start overanalyzing the smallest things.

-Bill
 

superchristx

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This is completely normal, especially if you have extreme/intense game. Basically you're causing two emotions in her at once and she can't think.

She's yours for the taking.
 

psychgrad

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Originally posted by superchristx
This is completely normal, especially if you have extreme/intense game. Basically you're causing two emotions in her at once and she can't think.

She's yours for the taking.

uhm, i dont think i have that much game, but i think she is used to guys handing her everything and I dont at all.

thkns
 

Ice Cold

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Ask her what she's thinking about. Ask her if she wants to hit you.

Don't just stare at her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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