"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girl has no idea who i am

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cablecow15

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ok theres this girl in my school that i have
no classes with and i only see her at lunch.
i want to goup to her but i dont.
i think about it but i dont act. what do
i do to bring up my self esteem enough
to talk to her or how do i get her to come to me.
i just want a simple way to get her attention
(with out doing any dangerus stunts)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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go and say 'hey do i know you?'
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by [o_0]
go and say 'hey do i know you?'
Go sit in the corner...

Anyway, its really not that hard. All you have to do is introduce yourself and voila, the ice will be broken. Theres no magic pill to take, you just have to FORCE yourself to do it.
 

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oka you are so lame. guy asked for the openin tip, not how to force himself make it. learn how to read and please dont post tips for people until you get some girls.aite? pzzz
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by [o_0]
oka you are so lame. guy asked for the openin tip, not how to force himself make it. learn how to read and please dont post tips for people until you get some girls.aite? pzzz
Oh ya, i forgot that you know everything about me...my deepest apologizes.:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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go for it !!!
chances are she has probally already noticed you and is shy also.
 

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just go up to her during lunch and say hi.or if she buys her lunch get behind her and start talking to her.
 

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just dont listen to guys like oakraiderz2 and simply go on. i can give u more tips if you read my threads. pzzzzzz
 

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Don't be a wuss, and just do it.
 
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