"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl has no idea who i am

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cablecow15

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ok theres this girl in my school that i have
no classes with and i only see her at lunch.
i want to goup to her but i dont.
i think about it but i dont act. what do
i do to bring up my self esteem enough
to talk to her or how do i get her to come to me.
i just want a simple way to get her attention
(with out doing any dangerus stunts)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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go and say 'hey do i know you?'
 

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Originally posted by [o_0]
go and say 'hey do i know you?'
Go sit in the corner...

Anyway, its really not that hard. All you have to do is introduce yourself and voila, the ice will be broken. Theres no magic pill to take, you just have to FORCE yourself to do it.
 

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oka you are so lame. guy asked for the openin tip, not how to force himself make it. learn how to read and please dont post tips for people until you get some girls.aite? pzzz
 

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Originally posted by [o_0]
oka you are so lame. guy asked for the openin tip, not how to force himself make it. learn how to read and please dont post tips for people until you get some girls.aite? pzzz
Oh ya, i forgot that you know everything about me...my deepest apologizes.:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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go for it !!!
chances are she has probally already noticed you and is shy also.
 

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just go up to her during lunch and say hi.or if she buys her lunch get behind her and start talking to her.
 

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just dont listen to guys like oakraiderz2 and simply go on. i can give u more tips if you read my threads. pzzzzzz
 

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Don't be a wuss, and just do it.
 
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