"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ok theres this girl in my school that i have
no classes with and i only see her at lunch.
i want to goup to her but i dont.
i think about it but i dont act. what do
i do to bring up my self esteem enough
to talk to her or how do i get her to come to me.
i just want a simple way to get her attention
(with out doing any dangerus stunts)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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go and say 'hey do i know you?'
 
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Originally posted by [o_0]
go and say 'hey do i know you?'
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Go sit in the corner...

Anyway, its really not that hard. All you have to do is introduce yourself and voila, the ice will be broken. Theres no magic pill to take, you just have to FORCE yourself to do it.
 
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oka you are so lame. guy asked for the openin tip, not how to force himself make it. learn how to read and please dont post tips for people until you get some girls.aite? pzzz
 
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oka you are so lame. guy asked for the openin tip, not how to force himself make it. learn how to read and please dont post tips for people until you get some girls.aite? pzzz
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Oh ya, i forgot that you know everything about me...my deepest apologizes.:rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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go for it !!!
chances are she has probally already noticed you and is shy also.
 
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just go up to her during lunch and say hi.or if she buys her lunch get behind her and start talking to her.
 
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just dont listen to guys like oakraiderz2 and simply go on. i can give u more tips if you read my threads. pzzzzzz
 
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Don't be a wuss, and just do it.
 
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