been reading quite some topics on pretty much anything on this site, learned some things by doing so, yesterday i asked her out one last time, she declined, I basically told her: np, your loss, good luck in life! and got myself a date and phone nr of a pretty nice girl not even 2 hours after
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl has BF, but...
- Thread starter bp47
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Awesome! Good job. You can't take rejections personal, forget about it and move onto the next one. You have to have the attitude that you are a great catch and it's thier loss.bp47 said: