"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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been reading quite some topics on pretty much anything on this site, learned some things by doing so, yesterday i asked her out one last time, she declined, I basically told her: np, your loss, good luck in life! and got myself a date and phone nr of a pretty nice girl not even 2 hours after
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bp47 said:
been reading quite some topics on pretty much anything on this site, learned some things by doing so, yesterday i asked her out one last time, she declined, I basically told her: np, your loss, good luck in life! and got myself a date and phone nr of a pretty nice girl not even 2 hours after
Awesome! Good job. You can't take rejections personal, forget about it and move onto the next one. You have to have the attitude that you are a great catch and it's thier loss.
 
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