been reading quite some topics on pretty much anything on this site, learned some things by doing so, yesterday i asked her out one last time, she declined, I basically told her: np, your loss, good luck in life! and got myself a date and phone nr of a pretty nice girl not even 2 hours after
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girl has BF, but...
- Thread starter bp47
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Awesome! Good job. You can't take rejections personal, forget about it and move onto the next one. You have to have the attitude that you are a great catch and it's thier loss.bp47 said: