"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl gone from warm to cold to HOT

ShizamDaMan

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Aight, this has been on my noodle lately, and I thought I'd share my situation with you guys.

On Jan 10th I was hanging out with some friends for my birthday. Anyway my one friend brought one of her friends along, I'ma call her B. Anyway B is pretty good looking, so I decided to DJ her. We had a good time and the group eventually landed back at my place (B thought it would be a good idea to go, as did I :D).

So we get there and my friend starts talking about how B is in love (yes, love) with some other dude. I heard that, but thought it was just BS, my girlfriend trying to c0ckblock me with B. So I kept going at it until I finally got stopped when trying to go for making out. They left around 3AM and even though I got the number I just chalked it up as a loss, went to sleep.

The next day another chick asked me what I did that night. I jokingly commented "Yeah I almost got some play." Well she told all her girlfriends and before I knew it I had been bragging how I did stuff with B at my house (riiiiiight). The girl I was out with that brought B told me that B called her and said I deserved to be slapped. Definitely chalked this girl up as a lost cause.

Anyway I'm online for a bit last Friday and this girl sends me an instant message. Suddenly she's all flirty with me, calling me all sorts of good things and saying she was afraid that I would hate her. She said she had bronchitis on the 10th and that's why she was "steering clear" of everyone.

This is just a bit too weird for me. First she's warm and slowly giving into my my advances, then she's cold and f*ckin hates me, then she's hot and throwing all sorts of compliments my way? She's like a goddamn lightswitch!

Thoughts, comments? I'm gonna steer clear of this chick in the meantime, I got other girls I'd rather get with.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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UltimateScoundrel

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There could be a lot going on behind the scenes that you don't know about. When she said you deserved to be slapped her words were being taken out of context.

Imagine this:
B:I heard Shizam is bragging and saying we made out! He should be slapped!

Mutual Friend: No, he didn't say that to anyone, he just said (blah blah blah)

Bam. That's the way it went down, swear to god.
 

DJ Alejandro

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whoa!!!

B: he deserves to be slapped!
Common Friend: blah blah...
B: <thinking> id like to slap his ars!!!
:D

maybe that should get ya smiling. haha :p
 

ShizamDaMan

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Heh, that's a good one Alejandro.

Right now she's being put on the back burner, cause I honestly don't have time to figure out what's going on with her. Tooooo much other stuff to do.

About the only way she could get my attention is by asking me to the Sweetheart dance in 2 weeks, but that won't happen LOL :)
 

SuSHI

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DOn't leave her on the back burner!

Trust me, I had a hot girl interested in me as well, but because of her immaturity...I was hesitant to ask her out.

Well...Guess what? She's no longer interested...at least not as much as she use to be.

You will regret it! It's better you ask her out, it not working and you cut your losses...than to not try at all!

SuSHI.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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