"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay so this is my first post here :wave:

Right I've been friends with this girl for about a year and then about 3 months ago we hooked up on a night out...since then we have been hooking up whenever were out together and we text a lot...she shows lots of interest and almost always initiates contact.

In the last two weeks things have started jumping forward and she was in my house last week and I almost f***** her...but....no lie as I was about to penetrate my nose started gushing blood all over her!? I know fml...she found it very funny but I was pretty pissed...after that my parents arrived home so she had to go.

My problem is that she's after leaving town to go to a special boarding school for 3 weeks to learn a language and she's not allowed her phone so I can't stay in contact with her. Will she still be interested in 3 weeks time even though we'll have no contact.

Even though we were just hooking up I'm really starting to like her and thinking about her up there with other guys is making me jealous....should I just forget about her for the 3 weeks and live my life and then ask her out again when she comes back?
Thanks in advance any help is appreciated
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm in a similar situation... sort of, the difference is that your situation is more favorable in every way,

only time will tell for sure, but I don't think you have much to worry about, she won't forget you that quickly

although I do not think you should just sit around and wait for her, forget about her until she gets back, then resume
 
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Sunsleeve said:
should I just forget about her for the 3 weeks and live my life and then ask her out again when she comes back?
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That is what you should do because you want to avoid becoming desperate and needy over her, which is exactly what will happen if you constantly think about her and become "jealous" of her being with other boys.

Game other girls and when she comes back after those three weeks, shoot her a text (or call) and plan something together.
 
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If she wants to talk, she Will find a way to do it. Otherwise don't worry about it.
 
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Write her a letter EVERYDAY! :up: :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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