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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Okay so this is my first post here :wave:

Right I've been friends with this girl for about a year and then about 3 months ago we hooked up on a night out...since then we have been hooking up whenever were out together and we text a lot...she shows lots of interest and almost always initiates contact.

In the last two weeks things have started jumping forward and she was in my house last week and I almost f***** her...but....no lie as I was about to penetrate my nose started gushing blood all over her!? I know fml...she found it very funny but I was pretty pissed...after that my parents arrived home so she had to go.

My problem is that she's after leaving town to go to a special boarding school for 3 weeks to learn a language and she's not allowed her phone so I can't stay in contact with her. Will she still be interested in 3 weeks time even though we'll have no contact.

Even though we were just hooking up I'm really starting to like her and thinking about her up there with other guys is making me jealous....should I just forget about her for the 3 weeks and live my life and then ask her out again when she comes back?
Thanks in advance any help is appreciated
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm in a similar situation... sort of, the difference is that your situation is more favorable in every way,

only time will tell for sure, but I don't think you have much to worry about, she won't forget you that quickly

although I do not think you should just sit around and wait for her, forget about her until she gets back, then resume
 
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Sunsleeve said:
should I just forget about her for the 3 weeks and live my life and then ask her out again when she comes back?
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That is what you should do because you want to avoid becoming desperate and needy over her, which is exactly what will happen if you constantly think about her and become "jealous" of her being with other boys.

Game other girls and when she comes back after those three weeks, shoot her a text (or call) and plan something together.
 
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If she wants to talk, she Will find a way to do it. Otherwise don't worry about it.
 
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Write her a letter EVERYDAY! :up: :crackup:
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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