"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl going away and contact is impossible

Sunsleeve

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Okay so this is my first post here :wave:

Right I've been friends with this girl for about a year and then about 3 months ago we hooked up on a night out...since then we have been hooking up whenever were out together and we text a lot...she shows lots of interest and almost always initiates contact.

In the last two weeks things have started jumping forward and she was in my house last week and I almost f***** her...but....no lie as I was about to penetrate my nose started gushing blood all over her!? I know fml...she found it very funny but I was pretty pissed...after that my parents arrived home so she had to go.

My problem is that she's after leaving town to go to a special boarding school for 3 weeks to learn a language and she's not allowed her phone so I can't stay in contact with her. Will she still be interested in 3 weeks time even though we'll have no contact.

Even though we were just hooking up I'm really starting to like her and thinking about her up there with other guys is making me jealous....should I just forget about her for the 3 weeks and live my life and then ask her out again when she comes back?
Thanks in advance any help is appreciated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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devilkingx2

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I'm in a similar situation... sort of, the difference is that your situation is more favorable in every way,

only time will tell for sure, but I don't think you have much to worry about, she won't forget you that quickly

although I do not think you should just sit around and wait for her, forget about her until she gets back, then resume
 

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Sunsleeve said:
should I just forget about her for the 3 weeks and live my life and then ask her out again when she comes back?
That is what you should do because you want to avoid becoming desperate and needy over her, which is exactly what will happen if you constantly think about her and become "jealous" of her being with other boys.

Game other girls and when she comes back after those three weeks, shoot her a text (or call) and plan something together.
 

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If she wants to talk, she Will find a way to do it. Otherwise don't worry about it.
 

No.Danny

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Write her a letter EVERYDAY! :up: :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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