"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Girl gives guy number through bartender

A

Aspire

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2018
Messages
68
Reaction score
9
So last night I was at my favorite bar talking with some friends, including the bartender (female). The bartender walks up to one of the friends and tells him that this girl who just left said that he was attractive and asked her to give him her number. She handed him her number on a napkin. Of course we were all happy for him and looking at him like “you’re the man.” Yet I cant help but wonder why it wasn’t me.

I thought I had learned that this stuff doesn’t happen in the adult world. When I was in middle school and high school, I had numerous girls ask me out but I turned them down because I was always interested in other girls that I never got. But I have never been asked out by a girl as an adult and it is obviously the norm for guys to have the burden of doing the asking.

Ok, give me your thoughts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Who Dares Win

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,426
Reaction score
5,803
It happened to me once that a cashier at a club told me that an other girl said that when she see me its seems to her she is looking at a good looking actor.

I tought she said that only to make fun of me and see my reaction then when I was leaving she asked me what she should tell to that girl.

If it wasnt for that girl to kiss me that same night I would have never believed it myself especially since Im nowhere as close to be that goodlooking.

So what can I say, any logic and common sense are alien to women in both direction.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top