So last night I was at my favorite bar talking with some friends, including the bartender (female). The bartender walks up to one of the friends and tells him that this girl who just left said that he was attractive and asked her to give him her number. She handed him her number on a napkin. Of course we were all happy for him and looking at him like “you’re the man.” Yet I cant help but wonder why it wasn’t me.
I thought I had learned that this stuff doesn’t happen in the adult world. When I was in middle school and high school, I had numerous girls ask me out but I turned them down because I was always interested in other girls that I never got. But I have never been asked out by a girl as an adult and it is obviously the norm for guys to have the burden of doing the asking.
Ok, give me your thoughts.
I thought I had learned that this stuff doesn’t happen in the adult world. When I was in middle school and high school, I had numerous girls ask me out but I turned them down because I was always interested in other girls that I never got. But I have never been asked out by a girl as an adult and it is obviously the norm for guys to have the burden of doing the asking.
Ok, give me your thoughts.