"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl gave me her email. Rejected?

david90

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So I # closed my target but she told me she doesn't have a cell phone and gave me her email instead. Who doesn't have a cell these days? Anyway, is getting an email instead of a # a kiss of death? I haven't email her yet but still i'm just wondering.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WaterTiger

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SO E-MAIL THE GIRL! I didn't have a cell phone till about 2 months ago. You have a way of contacting her, so use it. Maybe after you start shagging her you can get her one of those cheap "pre-pay" phones so she can respond to your booty calls:p
 

xhikari

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just mail her man. u have one resource might as well use it. if she means to communicate she will reply, else NEXT her...u ain't gonna loose anythin over an email anyway ;)
 

duke007

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The email is still good but depends on your situation.

Last girl I dated rejected my number close attempt and gave an email address instead. Months later she didn't want to let me go.
 

DrSoSuave

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Wouldn't say rejected. She probably is cautious about giving out numbers after probably dating some duds. Communicate in a light fashion and try to be direct in emails.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fatality

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I just got a cell phone for Christmas. Believe it or not some people don't feel the need to constantly call people and check messages while they are out of the house and save their calls for home.
 
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