So I # closed my target but she told me she doesn't have a cell phone and gave me her email instead. Who doesn't have a cell these days? Anyway, is getting an email instead of a # a kiss of death? I haven't email her yet but still i'm just wondering.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
girl gave me her email. Rejected?
- Thread starter david90
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
SO E-MAIL THE GIRL! I didn't have a cell phone till about 2 months ago. You have a way of contacting her, so use it. Maybe after you start shagging her you can get her one of those cheap "pre-pay" phones so she can respond to your booty calls
xhikari
Don Juan
just mail her man. u have one resource might as well use it. if she means to communicate she will reply, else NEXT her...u ain't gonna loose anythin over an email anyway
duke007
Master Don Juan
The email is still good but depends on your situation.
Last girl I dated rejected my number close attempt and gave an email address instead. Months later she didn't want to let me go.
Last girl I dated rejected my number close attempt and gave an email address instead. Months later she didn't want to let me go.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.