So I # closed my target but she told me she doesn't have a cell phone and gave me her email instead. Who doesn't have a cell these days? Anyway, is getting an email instead of a # a kiss of death? I haven't email her yet but still i'm just wondering.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
girl gave me her email. Rejected?
- Thread starter david90
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
SO E-MAIL THE GIRL! I didn't have a cell phone till about 2 months ago. You have a way of contacting her, so use it. Maybe after you start shagging her you can get her one of those cheap "pre-pay" phones so she can respond to your booty calls
xhikari
Don Juan
just mail her man. u have one resource might as well use it. if she means to communicate she will reply, else NEXT her...u ain't gonna loose anythin over an email anyway
duke007
Master Don Juan
The email is still good but depends on your situation.
Last girl I dated rejected my number close attempt and gave an email address instead. Months later she didn't want to let me go.
Last girl I dated rejected my number close attempt and gave an email address instead. Months later she didn't want to let me go.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.