Girl from PoF came over...

[Jhcl4000]

She laid in my bed next to me as we watched a movie on Netflix, but when I tried to kiss her she rejected it. Seriously...?

 

[Stort_Brød]

that sucks bro... now my question to you is did you play with her? no I dont mean playing on the swings or finger bashing her. I mean did you play with her mind, did you flirt, did you kino, did you touch her stroker her leg, play with her hair and all that other B.S?

sure she may have been in your bed but really where else did she have to go? it's not like she was going to sit on the floor by herself. if you were both sitting on opposite edges of the bed then that's your problem she was uncomfortable. if she was snuggled up under your arm well then that's when you start playing with her. best one ever to be really playful is start the old tickle war and that will create your opportunity to go in for the kiss. but of course it doesnt work so well on the upper class chicks or older ones.

 

[jlr12584]

was this a first date? I personally think it is okay to hold off on a kiss until u get a second date. If she agrees to a second date, your chances of getting that kiss go way up without making yourself look like an ass.

 

[Stort_Brød]

was this a first date? I personally think it is okay to hold off on a kiss until u get a second date. If she agrees to a second date, your chances of getting that kiss go way up without making yourself look like an ass.

while agree with you 100% this is some chick from POF who is sitting in his bed presumably on the first night they met each other... now I may be wrong with this and correct me if I am OP. but do you really think she is a keeper and would be so easily coerced into a random blokes bed to watch a movie? short answer NO. she was looking for the D.

but I wans't there and don't know what happened or how the whole thing went down so that's just my opinion.

 

[jlr12584]

Possibly she was looking for the D. Hard to say actually. Girls don't necessarily process things the same way. Just because ur both watching a movie on a bed doesn't mean she wants sex. But then again maybe she did. And if that's the case, then she showed up expecting something different than the way OP presented himself. He must have done things right up until the point of meeting, and then did something to repel her.

 

[skinnyguy]

well at least you didn't get herpes

 

[Stort_Brød]

well at least you didn't get herpes

LOLOLOLOLOLOL ... most chicks these days would be like " oh well add it to the collection" haha sti's arent f**ken pokemon ok people

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Have some booze or girly drinks for POF chicks that come to your house. This is a must it will loosen them up so to speak. Just an offer more than likely they will accept, if they don't then no big deal. She was hungry and looking for some action you just weren't prepared or didn't have your A game on. Again POF chick no big deal move on you didn't catch the herps.

 

[zinc4]

Should have been more aggressve...lot's will reject first and then reciprocte when you aggressive...if she's on your bed that's green light...don't stop at one..make her say no adamantly...i have had this year alone 5 girls reject the first kiss when on my bed and a few more even 2nd kiss then only to be having sex about 40 mins-1 hour later after i kept persisting......the only thing i can reason is they can tell themselves they aren't sluts and the guy pushed them hard..that and could be a **** test to separate confident guys from non confident ones..either way...be super aggressive with any girl much less of girl when she is on your bed and never be discouraged by an initial kiss rejection.......and like the other guy said always have some girly drinks or red wine to offer first and try to drink with her a little first.....

 

[Stort_Brød]

roofies work well too .... just saying... haha

i have had a chick telling me "don't even think about it or get the **** off me" and pushing me off her. only to break her push and start kissing her and she loved me putting the force on her. not in a sexual predator way of course... but more of a i know you are testing me sort of deal

 

[Uncharted]

You forgot the alcohol. Chicks on POF usually want "boyfriends" at first so she might be trying to impress you so that you don't think she's a slut. Just keep escalating. Or move on. If she reached out to you then have her come over again and this time make sure you bang. If not, next.

 

[DonGorgon]

She laid in my bed next to me as we watched a movie on Netflix, but when I tried to kiss her she rejected it. Seriously...?

thats life mane.. let me tell you what happened... she is a ho and she goes to mew mens house every day and Fs them BUT... if she comes over and does not feel sexually attracted she will reject you without hesitation because she know she tomorrow night she 9will be in another dudes bed..LOL


LOL @ THE ACOHOL COMMENT

 

[user name]

yeah i had a pof girl come to mine on the first 'date'. made the mistake of no booze AND i was working on call so was getting interrupted by calls all the time. a definitely passion killer. she had spent over two hours getting here so she must have been keen but to be honest all i could think about was 'who is this grown 30something woman who goes to a guy's house on the first date anyway?' i couldnt wait to be rid of her to be honest.

 

[DonGorgon]

yeah i had a pof girl come to mine on the first 'date'. made the mistake of no booze AND i was working on call so was getting interrupted by calls all the time. a definitely passion killer. she had spent over two hours getting here so she must have been keen but to be honest all i could think about was 'who is this grown 30something woman who goes to a guy's house on the first date anyway?' i couldnt wait to be rid of her to be honest.

lol thats what women do in secret go to guys house for sex....lol thats life even married women do it