"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

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Had plans to meet this girl from the internet this weekend for drinks, but when I called her to confirm she didn't answer and I left a message. She never called me back.

Now I'm on AIM and she's online too. I haven't messaged her at all. I was waiting to see if she messaged me but she hasn't, and it's been like half an hour. Should I say something?

Should I send her a message or just ignore her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Immaculate
Had plans to meet this girl from the internet this weekend for drinks, but when I called her to confirm she didn't answer and I left a message. She never called me back.

Now I'm on AIM and she's online too. I haven't messaged her at all. I was waiting to see if she messaged me but she hasn't, and it's been like half an hour. Should I say something?

Should I send her a message or just ignore her?
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You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
 
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Re: Re: Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
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but she's sitting online on AIM right now, and I'm online too.. so I want to mess with her a little bit.. any advice?

BTW, we have talked several times on the phone, it isn't just a net thing.. but when we finally set up a date she flaked out.


I want to message her with something funny .. any advice? If she wasn't interested at all why didn't she delete my name... instead she's sitiin here online like she's waitin for m,e so say something.
 
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Re: Re: Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
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You're right.. I'm about to delete her name off my list in 5 minutes... *****es and their games... her loss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hmmm, I never called a chick a douche bag...........let me know how it goes.
 
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Originally posted by sikpupy
Hmmm, I never called a chick a douche bag...........let me know how it goes.
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Really? I call women douchebags all the time.
 
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Originally posted by Immaculate
Had plans to meet this girl from the internet this weekend for drinks, but when I called her to confirm she didn't answer and I left a message. She never called me back.

Now I'm on AIM and she's online too. I haven't messaged her at all. I was waiting to see if she messaged me but she hasn't, and it's been like half an hour. Should I say something?

Should I send her a message or just ignore her?
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You are a busy guy with an interesting and dynamic social life. You do not have time for flakes.

Accordingly, when she gets (drunk/lonely/horny/sad/strung out/hormonal) and IMs you looking for attention your reply will be:

"Look, I don't have time for people who flake out. Life is too short for that nonsense. I'm headed to a party at 1 South Jefferys Street at 8:30. You can meet me there, or not. Ciao!"

Don't answer any other IMs from her.

Oh, and it's up to you if there's really a party or not and if 1 South Jefferys is a crack house or a swank hotel.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
Ask yourself this- Would Johnny Depp use instant messenger??????????
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:crackup: As long as you're joking, that is. I wish they'd stop putting those damned articles on the homepage. They make me sick every time I see them. Like I give a damn if Bruce Willis uses online dating services . . .
 
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Re: Re: Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
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I recently pulled a women of the web. We've been out a couple of times. So far she is the most fun I have ever had with a chick and I've tried most walks of life. Second she isn't bad looking. I never set the date up online though. We exchanged numbers after an hour online and I set it up a couple of days later.

I heard a lot about bad luck storys with the net but if you know what your doing it can work
 
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