"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

I

Immaculate

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 17, 2003
Messages
679
Reaction score
0
Age
48
Had plans to meet this girl from the internet this weekend for drinks, but when I called her to confirm she didn't answer and I left a message. She never called me back.

Now I'm on AIM and she's online too. I haven't messaged her at all. I was waiting to see if she messaged me but she hasn't, and it's been like half an hour. Should I say something?

Should I send her a message or just ignore her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

T

TxCowboy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2005
Messages
244
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Austin, Texas
Originally posted by Immaculate
Had plans to meet this girl from the internet this weekend for drinks, but when I called her to confirm she didn't answer and I left a message. She never called me back.

Now I'm on AIM and she's online too. I haven't messaged her at all. I was waiting to see if she messaged me but she hasn't, and it's been like half an hour. Should I say something?

Should I send her a message or just ignore her?
Click to expand...
You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
 
I

Immaculate

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 17, 2003
Messages
679
Reaction score
0
Age
48
Re: Re: Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
Click to expand...

but she's sitting online on AIM right now, and I'm online too.. so I want to mess with her a little bit.. any advice?

BTW, we have talked several times on the phone, it isn't just a net thing.. but when we finally set up a date she flaked out.


I want to message her with something funny .. any advice? If she wasn't interested at all why didn't she delete my name... instead she's sitiin here online like she's waitin for m,e so say something.
 
I

Immaculate

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 17, 2003
Messages
679
Reaction score
0
Age
48
Re: Re: Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
Click to expand...
You're right.. I'm about to delete her name off my list in 5 minutes... *****es and their games... her loss.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

S

sikpupy

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 25, 2005
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
Hmmm, I never called a chick a douche bag...........let me know how it goes.
 
S

SparkleMotion

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2004
Messages
187
Reaction score
1
Age
72
Originally posted by sikpupy
Hmmm, I never called a chick a douche bag...........let me know how it goes.
Click to expand...
Really? I call women douchebags all the time.
 
E

EquityPrivate

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2005
Messages
69
Reaction score
0
Location
New York City
Originally posted by Immaculate
Had plans to meet this girl from the internet this weekend for drinks, but when I called her to confirm she didn't answer and I left a message. She never called me back.

Now I'm on AIM and she's online too. I haven't messaged her at all. I was waiting to see if she messaged me but she hasn't, and it's been like half an hour. Should I say something?

Should I send her a message or just ignore her?
Click to expand...
You are a busy guy with an interesting and dynamic social life. You do not have time for flakes.

Accordingly, when she gets (drunk/lonely/horny/sad/strung out/hormonal) and IMs you looking for attention your reply will be:

"Look, I don't have time for people who flake out. Life is too short for that nonsense. I'm headed to a party at 1 South Jefferys Street at 8:30. You can meet me there, or not. Ciao!"

Don't answer any other IMs from her.

Oh, and it's up to you if there's really a party or not and if 1 South Jefferys is a crack house or a swank hotel.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

F

fender85

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2003
Messages
169
Reaction score
0
Age
44
Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
Ask yourself this- Would Johnny Depp use instant messenger??????????
Click to expand...
:crackup: As long as you're joking, that is. I wish they'd stop putting those damned articles on the homepage. They make me sick every time I see them. Like I give a damn if Bruce Willis uses online dating services . . .
 
S

sparky1981

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2005
Messages
75
Reaction score
0
Location
New Zealand
Re: Re: Girl from Net Flaked on me.. Should I ignore her when using AIM?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
You never setup a date on the net.

I dont even know y u would waste ur time with the h0... get out and meet real women ... delete the b1tch off the list ... move on

If she never called back , neither should u ... simple as that
Click to expand...

I recently pulled a women of the web. We've been out a couple of times. So far she is the most fun I have ever had with a chick and I've tried most walks of life. Second she isn't bad looking. I never set the date up online though. We exchanged numbers after an hour online and I set it up a couple of days later.

I heard a lot about bad luck storys with the net but if you know what your doing it can work
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top