This girl who I haven't talked to since elementary school wrote on my facebook wall "remember when we used to cheer for you when you and ____ played basketball?".....This seems so random I don't know how to respond. In elementary, school we both liked eachother lol....How should I respond, besides saying I remember and such.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girl from elementary school? lol
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
AtillaTheHun
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I'd respond "Where you at? We need to catch up some time."
ARrocket
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I'd agree with that, just don't waste too much time messaging back and forth. Get the number in the next couple of messages, and then go "catch up"AtillaTheHun said:
