This girl who I haven't talked to since elementary school wrote on my facebook wall "remember when we used to cheer for you when you and ____ played basketball?".....This seems so random I don't know how to respond. In elementary, school we both liked eachother lol....How should I respond, besides saying I remember and such.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl from elementary school? lol
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AtillaTheHun
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I'd respond "Where you at? We need to catch up some time."
ARrocket
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I'd agree with that, just don't waste too much time messaging back and forth. Get the number in the next couple of messages, and then go "catch up"AtillaTheHun said:
