Girl flaked and went out anyway

[than]

I'd organised to go to the movies with a girl I'd been talking to at school for a while and she texted me cancelling with some bs excuse about having work the next morning a few hours before hand without offering another date. I know she at least was really into me at one point but I think I'd waited too long to make a real move and now shes been acting sorta cold and distant in person. I was going to just ignore/next her and act cool about it but then she texted me something along the lines of this while i was out last night:

her: than
her: my mum got home and said k come to the movies with me
her: and we saw now you see me
her: and it was really good
her: and we ate kebabs after
her: I'm sorry <3
her: will you talk to me now
her: are you eating kfc

I haven't replied yet and don't know what i should make of this, should i just keep ignoring her or what?

 

[ediceneet12]

Sounds like the predicament I was in earlier this summer with a chick,
The chick that flaked on me acted "sorry" but didn't follow up with another offer.

What I did was waited a bit responded with "it's fine" and then just went cold on her for like a week. and then just asked her out again and that time she didn't flake.

EDIT: Scratch all of what i said just do what Frayzer said and see if she doesn't flake last second.

 

[Skyline]

"Hey, let's go see/do x on x."
Something along the lines of that^

If she says she's working on x day, then ask her when she's not working. It's that simple.

That's honestly the only thing i'd send her at this point, or any other time If I were looking for something more than friends.

 

[than]

"Hey, let's go see/do x on x."
Something along the lines of that^

If she says she's working on x day, then ask her when she's not working. It's that simple.

That's honestly the only thing i'd send her at this point, or any other time If I were looking for something more than friends.

that is exactly what i did and she agreed to the time last weekend and seemed enthusiastic about it

 

[AlexLefty]

Is it possible she's just not attracted to you?

 

[than]

Is it possible she's just not attracted to you?

maybe, but at this point i think she's in autorejection, i have a bad habit of letting it happen

 

[AlexLefty]

maybe, but at this point i think she's in autorejection, i have a bad habit of letting it happen

Explain?

 

[Georgepithyou]

The chick that flaked on me acted "sorry" but didn't follow up with another offer.

This is why men should have a one strike rule, once a flake always a flake

 

[Romanemp22]

This is why men should have a one strike rule, once a flake always a flake

Its funny when guys fall for "im suddenly sick excuse"

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I'd respond with "I hope you enjoyed yourself" and that's it. Let her chase you and find other women to focus your attention on.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I'd just tell her to fu'ck off. I would not care really.
Persons that flake on you don't have much integrity, so why would you want that in your life? (E.g low quality person). If she would be even more interested (As in she is chasing you), after that you just got yourself a one night stand (if she's hot enough ofc) and then you move on to the next,.

 

[derby1]

after that you just got yourself a one night stand (if she's hot enough ofc) and then you move on to the next,.

As soon a woman makes anything uneasy for me, I get erectile dysfunction instantly

 

[AureliusMaximus]

As soon a woman makes anything uneasy for me, I get erectile dysfunction instantly

Yeah. To me its sort of like the modern version of the car door sh'it test.

If she flakes then the bi'tch is out and failed the sh'it test.

 

[derby1]

Yeah. To me its sort of like the modern version of the car door sh'it test.

If she flakes then the bi'tch is out and failed the sh'it test.

brilliant scene,

My 12 year old daughter is possibly one of only 5 females i know who would pass that test still, the other 4 are married

 

[mrgoodstuff]

As soon a woman makes anything uneasy for me, I get erectile dysfunction instantly

Listen to your c0ck. When they are cooperating your body can feel it and it turns on.

 

[bat soup]

I'd organised to go to the movies with a girl I'd been talking to at school for a while and she texted me cancelling with some bs excuse about having work the next morning a few hours before hand without offering another date. I know she at least was really into me at one point but I think I'd waited too long to make a real move and now shes been acting sorta cold and distant in person. I was going to just ignore/next her and act cool about it but then she texted me something along the lines of this while i was out last night:

her: than
her: my mum got home and said k come to the movies with me
her: and we saw now you see me
her: and it was really good
her: and we ate kebabs after
her: I'm sorry <3
her: will you talk to me now
her: are you eating kfc

I haven't replied yet and don't know what i should make of this, should i just keep ignoring her or what?

She sounds like a lying attention whoare. She wants to chat by text message but doesn't want to meet up.

 

[nismo-4]

She sounds like a lying attention whoare. She wants to chat by text message but doesn't want to meet up.

Read this again OP!

Read this again OP!

She's just keeping you in a beta role. Just text her to come over with a pepperoni pizza, double pepperoni, cheese, and sauce. And bring kneepads (for the blowing she better give you) and she better swallow a cup of your cüm. Anything other than this means delete her.

Case closed.